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The title itself was borne of important messages:
The title Yes Please comes from a few different places. I like to say "Yes please" as an answer to a lot of things in my personal and professional life. The "yes" comes from my improvisational days and the opportunity that comes with youth, and the "please" comes from the wisdom of knowing that agreeing to do something usually means you aren't doing it alone...Saying "yes" doesn't mean I don't know how to say no, and saying "please" doesn't mean I am waiting for permission. "Yes please" sounds powerful and concise. It's a response and a request. It is not about being a good girl; it is about being a real woman...[N]ice manners are the secret key to the universe.
Although a few of the essays are arguably geared slightly more towards women, the author correctly assures us the book has "plenty of stuff" for men as well. Indeed, most of the messages are universal. For example, a missive on pregnancy and childbirth discusses the various approaches and how women can be judgmental of each other concerning choices different from their own. Poehler has a two-sentence motto for this situation that really can, and perhaps should, apply to all of us in most every situation: "Good for her! Not for me."
While we all expect plenty of funny from Poehler, it was the more serious portions of the book I took to the most. They were heartfelt and sometimes difficult to read, but underscored the fact that we all suffer from the same faults and indignities, despite our stations in life. My favorite essay was about saying "sorry" and a situation Poehler suffered through for years before finding peace through an apology. It was a lesson in humility and grace not to be missed.
While Yes Please comments on other serious issues (death, divorce, postpartum depression, negative inner voices), never fear, there is plenty of humor, even in the "hard parts." Fans of Poehler's work will be tickled to read insider stories from her time at the Upright Citizens Brigade, SNL, and Parks & Recreation. With section titles such as "Treat Your Career Like A Bad Boyfriend," "My World Famous Sex Advice," and "Talk To Yourself Like You're Ninety," it seems certain there's something for every reader.
I didn't find all of it funny (see: worn out joke about Hollywood lawyers and agents being Jewish - which may have been a parody of the stereotype I just didn't find humorous regardless), which lends itself to how "human" the book feels. It may seem cliche, but Poehler was able to come across as the "everywoman," someone to whom we can all relate on some level. In an essay by former Weekend Update co-anchor Seth Meyers, Meyers writes about the first time he saw Poehler, performing at a Chicago improv theater in the mid-90s. A member of the audience, Meyers remembers thinking "[s]he was charming, funny, sweet, and sharp and I left thinking, 'I would like to be her friend.'"
To Poehler's credit, I finished this book feeling exactly the same way.
STREET SENSE: Whether you're looking for a set of funny stories from one of our best comedic minds, or a memoir about what makes Amy Poehler tick, this book fits the bill. Highly recommended and put together prettily enough to display on your coffee table for a quick "thumb-through" by a guest or to revisit a favorite essay.
A FAVORITE PASSAGE: I had to pick two, one that made me laugh out loud and one that got me in my guts:
Nothing is more depressing than a tired dominatrix.
Our parents surround us with origin stories that create deep grooves in the vinyl records of our lives.
COVER NERD SAYS: I liked this cover very much. As simple as a great photo of Amy, it also speaks to the "Yes Please" underpinnings of both vulnerability (the raising of Amy's hand) and power (the raising of Amy's hand).
